Being “The Referee”
(By
Ike Relacion, Bd. 134 MD)
(Ike
Relacion is a member of Bd. 134 MD. He is an NCAA basketball official and has
worked in the American Basketball League (ABL) and currently works
semiprofessionally in the U.S. Basketball League and National Rookie League.
Most recently, Ike officiated the NJCAA Men’s Championships in Delhi,
NY.)
Referees vary in their personalities and approach to the job, but whatever they are like, to be effective they must get the best out of the other partner(s).
Groomed
To Be Crew Chief
If
you would like to increase your chances of success for becoming a capable
referee, spend time at training. How can you improve your officiating
abilities? It begins with grooming,
and there are two aspects to the process.
First,
groom yourself. Use time spent on an airplane, bus, or in your car, and ACTIVELY
train to improve yourself!
All
officials spend many hours traveling to get to their games. This is a perfect opportunity to immerse
yourself in getting better through the use of cassettes, CD’s, video or DVD,
and/or reading. Continue to grow
with the game. Officiating has changed so much, and with this change comes
increased accountability.
Whether
in the business world or officiating, it is not selfish to make TIME for those
things that you are good at! Investing additional time in the pursuit of skills
and self improvement that allows
you to enjoy life just makes sense!
Second, become an asset to your assignor
so that they can groom you. Officials generally must be groomed to be a referee
over a period of time. This necessary preparation is imperative so that when the
time comes to take a leadership role, you will be ready for the job.
Many
successful assignors of officials and referees have worked closely together to
achieve the assignor’s ideal of success. Matching this ideal is an essential
goal of every member of the officiating staff in whichever league or conference
they work.
Collaboration
A good referee makes his/her partner(s) better. The ideal referee is able to collaborate creatively, contributing without dominating, and innovating without driving. But, what is collaboration? What do you need to know to become a better referee and draw the very best from
your
crew?
Collaboration
is defined as “to labor together,” as derived from its Latin roots. Some people
see collaboration as capitulation, as giving up of one’s position. However, that
concept is far from successful collaboration.
Collaboration
is a developed skill and requires self-discipline and concentration. It requires
a deep reorganization of our beliefs about what it means to work together.
It
is the clear ability to be open to new ideas and approaches and allow
possibilities to emerge from the group. It is the ability to resist control and
live with ambiguity and initial failure. We all learn from our mistakes.
Referees facilitate collaboration; they don’t control it.
Like
good leaders, referees access and take advantage of the skills, strengths and
talents of the people around them. The more motivated an official is to learn
and to grow, the more skills and creative thinking they develop which, in turn
develops a better referee. It is growth like this that creates tomorrow’s
leaders in the business world and in the sports officiating
environment.
Leadership
Ability
The
referee must want to take responsibility and want to lead others by example. The
referee must be a determined official and have a strong motivation to perform
consistently well, be practical in the application of rules and in the use of
common sense, and be an effective administrator of the game.
There
is a lot of responsibility associated with being a leader. Staying motivated to be a leader when
working with partner(s) who need to be led can perhaps be the most telling
feature of one’s disposition for willingness to become a
referee.
Mature
Attitude
The
referee must gain the crew’s respect by his/her personality and game management
skills. The referee is a relationship manager, pure and simple.
In
this role, he/she must be consistent in temperament and assess each situation
coolly. Additionally, he/she must have the necessary concentration and resources
to guide the game when tough situations arise. Good communication between the
referee and the partner(s) is essential as well as communication with table
personnel and bench personnel.
Inspirational
Qualities
The
referee, by approach and example, must be able to inspire a partner(s) often and
as needed. The referee must be able to inspire the nervous crewmember and subdue
the over-confident one without destroying confidence.
Besides
collaboration, leadership, mature attitude, and inspirational qualities
mentioned above, one of the most important things that a referee needs to have
is the ability to keep focused on the big picture and to manage the game from
the opening tap to the final buzzer. A good referee leads with confidence and
clarity.
Leadership
is about influencing people and knowing the difference between power and
authority. It’s about who you are as a person, your character, and the influence
you’ve developed with people.
A
good referee should have integrity, be trustworthy, humble, and supportive. A
referee must have great organizational skills, display diplomacy, be
constructively critical, and under the right conditions and with the right words
and actions, empower others.
A
good referee is someone who can recognize and utilize the strengths of the
partner(s) and has enough confidence in his/her own ability not to micromanage,
but rather extract the strengths of individuals. Are you up to
it!